- (via theijeoma)
"When will you ever forgive your mother for all the miracles she couldn’t perform?"

Questions for Ada

Ijeoma Umebinyuo

(via theijeoma)


I really want to be friends first with the person I eventually date or go out with.
I want that.
I feel like that’s be a nicer way to know each other and a better way to build a stronger bond for the future.

(via truthology)

"It’s okay to cry over him.
It’s even okay to forgive him.
But do not go back to him.
If he did not know how to love you the first time,
he won’t know how to do it the next"


need to remember not to spill my innermost feelings into callous palms. into bodies that will view me as tragic, different, changed. who will pity me and then shove words like ‘think positively’ down my throat.

this is not emancipation. this is a wilful imprisonment in my own mind and now in theirs too.

it is extremely belittling to be moulded into a single image of what you may be feeling/going through at a particular moment. suffocating. reductive.



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