My mother be like….
Now that my mother knows I’m graduating soon, she’s been calling me everyday talking about:
“Ada, I want make you find husband ooo”
” I want you to marry this year and have kids while you’re still young. “
“What is the name of the man. I want to give it to my pastor, so that he can pray”
Hahaha… see me see wahala. Can I breathe? I didn’t ask to be Ada (first daughter). I’m not even that old lol
I am struggling to remember that everything happens for a reason. whatever energy is put out, is received, and sometimes, not at the exact moment, but eventually you receive what you have been acting for.
trust time. — s.h. (via wildsultrys0ul)
Anybody who refused to appreciate you,
Anybody who did you wrong,
Anybody who took advantage of your kindness,
Anybody that just was a shitty person..
Don’t give them the satisfaction of you fighting back,
Of you talking shitty about them.
Don’t be a shitty person,
They don’t even deserve that part of you.
And move on.
Watch how the flowers in your garden bloom
Once you’ve walked away from
Poisoned waters. — Forgive.
-Sade Harrison (via wildsultrys0ul)
do you know when you read a book that’s just so well written that when you finish it you can’t help but just sit there in silence for a few minutes just thinking about it, and then you reread the last couple pages, and just close the book and kind of stroke the cover in a weird sort of way and just keep thinking because it leaves such a strong impression on you that it just kinda haunts you in the back of your mind for the next few days
So I just chopped off all my hair..
Yup, cut it myself…
I don’t know how I feel about it.
I feel like crying, but the tears aren’t coming.
I never dreamed of cutting my hair… at least not anytime soon, but I took out my braids and I had a lot of knots in my hair (that’s what happens when u have your braids on for too long).. it was worse after I washed it. It became impossible to detangle. Let’s just say my frustration got the scissors to work.